If my boss was going to drive the car, to make her happy, I would get the 'softest' set up I can whilst keeping the brake upgrade. That way you can tell her its 'really safe' with the brakes hence put up with the ride. What ever you get it will be higher than what you like, but its HER ride not yours.
Just my thoughts
UK
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