Access to my kids....

[chelvdog]

My ex-wife & I had an amicable divorce a coupla years ago & I've always done the right thing and paid my Child Support and have my kids stay over every Saturday night. She was with this top bloke, who has apparently turned out not so tops (into manufacturing drugs, has guns, etc) She wants to move 4000kms away within the next coupla days coz she's scared of him (but wont lodge a police report, etc) I don't have the $ to fly to see my kids when I want to see them, but she can just take off and disappear. According to the Child Support Office, I can do sweet F.A about it. If she disappears & I cant contact her to pay the child support, she can report me & have the amount deducted from my salary, yet I still cant see my kids. All of my family is here and we absolutely love the kids to death. It was so hard saying goodbye to them yeaterday coz I don't know if I'll ever see them again.
Anyone else here been in a similar situation & what the hell did you do about it? I'm out of ideas. Sorry for venting.