Need some advice, particularly from female persuasion.

[Van D]

So yeah, my and my girlfriend went around to a friends place a couple nights ago with a few other friends to have a good time :

All was well until one of my female friends had a few too many in the spa and tried to make something happen with my best mate (a couple weeks ago, she did something with this guy which broke her up with her boyfriend, my mate didn't even know and felt like crap the next day, she said she felt bad and would never do it again) even though he refused. Things actually got a bit pushy with my mate trying to get out, lol, and in the end the girl just broke down and started going into hysterics etc.

Later that night after looking after her (been spewed on sucks) finally got her to calm down and sleep..

Now, here's where it gets tricky. The next morning, my girlfriend left early to go to work. This other female friend comes over later (around 11.30am) and jumps under the doonah (slept on the foor, timber floors suck).. starts saying she's confused and asking why the other guy didn't kiss her last night, yada yada. We'd allready told her it was because he didn't want to, and because of other things that happened last time etc.. But she didn't seem to except it. Starts crying, so I put my arm around her.. Then then snuggles into my shoulder, and after a little while starts to kiss it, i think wtf and put her on her back again and try ignore it/talk about something else.. She keeps looking at me, then started to kiss me. I pulled away and said something along the lines of 'don't do that'.. She put her head down, but tried a couple more times, I kept pulling away and told her I can't etc and that she shouldn't either..
She gets a little annoyed, then after a little while asks for me (quite simply) to kiss her, then why won't I kiss her? I say I can't etc again. She then asks if I wasn't going out with my girlfriend if I would, I say I don't think so as she's got other things to sort out (ie, my mate, and her boyfriend that are still trying to sort things out). She tried kissing me again, and kinda made contact before I pulled away and said that I was trying to help her, and that if she just wants to do that, then i'm leaving. So I got up, put on my clothes and left to go see the others.

Now.. My questions..

Even though she ask that I leave it later on, should I tell my girlfriend? I kinda feel bad not telling her, as I try to be as honest as possible with everything.. Or will it just complicate things with everyone far too much?

My friend later said she was still drunk, even though she stopped at around 2am and didn't drink much.. She also come out to all us others around 5-10 mins later and acted fine.. Should I beleive her (she does do some stupid things when drunk)?.. On that note, others noticed she was trying to get a bit too close to me during the night, even though I was pulling away/trying to stay away.

If I tell my girlfriend, do I tell her all of it (that's why I bothered explaining it in detail) or just tell her the basic jist?

Should I talk to me female friend about it, or leave it with her?


I've been kinda depressed last couple days, which doesn't help, because of some crap stuff, and this on my mind doesn't help either. Also doesn't help that I missed a power pole today after my car cut out around a corner and I lost steering/most brakes and missed it by about half a metre.

So yeah, some help clearing the mind would be nice. Especially from females and how they'd react if they're b/f told them that.. as I don't want to stir the **** pot.

Thanks.